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GQ Full Of ‘GLEE’: Sexing Up Teens

21 Oct

Oops!, pouty teen girls draped on school lockers did it again. That is, made ya double take with fascinated (or –ingly faux) shock, and then stare blatantly. Parents groups are going bonkers and for the Parents Television Council, GQ’s November photo spread “borders on pedophilia” by sexing up the teen characters (played by Lea Michele and Dianna Argon, both 24, and for which Aragon somewhat ramblingly apologizes) of the hit high school TV show ‘Glee’. A show about an underdog clique. Huh. For those unfamiliar with the show, these images are absolutely not truth in advertising. Furthermore, as if illustrating how conflicted and split our culture’s views of sexuality (and girls, and youth) are, the day after the cover was announced, People’s reader poll was a close shave at 51-49% Yes the photos are too racy.

But all this hoo-ha isn’t as much about a men’s fashion mag (GQ: Look sharp, Live smart) sexualizing female youth (‘Glee’ male co-star Cory Monteith is fully clothed, with his hands on his co-stars’ booties) in a medium readily accessible to impressionable children’s eyes and minds — it’s predominantly a really, really great press stunt to sell more GQ mags at the expense of sexualizing female youth and warping impressionable minds of future loyal readers.

If this was really about borderline pedophilia, where was the outrage over actual teenaged Taylor Lautner’s (confusing because like Michele and Aragon, he’s of age at 18) bemused but non-patronizing profile and spread this summer pimping sartorial porn ($625 button downs and $745 six-pack-hugging T-shirts, and jeans that have such difficulty staying buttoned, apparently the wearer would be wise to lay down on a bed topless to do so)? Ever since I was an impressionable child under the 18-end of GQ’s 18-49 year old demographic, my vague sense of GQ was that it was a men’s fashion magazine with eh-so-what metro sexual (just not labeled that then) if not biblically strongly homoerotic leanings. To both, so what? If I equally vaguely recall feeling that it was cool guys had a mag that told them how to rag fashionably (if a bit staidly back in the day), I do clearly remember semi-gloating that its great looking glossiness would never evoke emotion (precisely because of its staid airs and implied correct rules of dressing) as much as the pervasive women’s pubs that did the same thing (albeit with a lot more pink lipstick) — and isn’t that how we buy something/-one?, via emotional impulse/response?

So is this new fangled trend all the kids are doing now of selling things with sex going to irrevocably warp their minds and provoke the ire of sexist terrorists the world over? I say: probably, because if it ain’t broke… The one thing I’d like to see change is our culture’s attitude that a young girl/woman’s sexuality needs more lamblike protecting than that of our young boys/men’s minds, attitudes, and actual sexuality (Mary Kay Letourneau/Debra Lafave much, anyone?).

How does the GQ sexed up images of styled-as-under-aged girls in an adult men’s magazine make you feel? Will you let your young son or daughter look at it? Why or how is the sexualization of young girls/women worse than that of their male counterparts?  — PopSmarts

Image: Terry Richardson/GQ

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‘Twilight’: More Dysfunctional Romantic Notions Coming Soon!

27 Jun

There’s a new moon ‘Eclipse’ on the horizon which makes this as good a time as any to discuss the unceasingly naive romantic notions that our movies and culture shove down the throats of girls, the worst of which center on – you guessed it – “relationships.”

Twilight shapes dysfunctional young girls

Let me be super clear that I’m not a Twilight hater, but I haven’t read any of Stephanie Myer’s series and I know that makes me an oddball (especially for a girl). So please pardon my self-acknowledged ignorance of the written material, but rest-assured that I’ve been informed clearly by those in the know that Myer does a great job of explaining “It” more fully in her books.  Greater, I hope, than the ways the movie franchise has so-far handled “It”: True Love.

From Scathing Reviews for Bitchy People:

Oh. My. God. The new Twilight: Eclipse (isn’t that a kind of gum?) poster is so emo, I fear it may actually try to cut itself. (Agent Bedhead) *

Exactly. In our culture, it’s not like there’s a plethora of healthy amorous relationships for young girls to emulate to begin with. How is any self-respecting girl supposed to grow up to be a self-respecting woman in relationships (and even before that, single or in her quest for them) when this influential franchise puts out such misleading messages? Note the post break-up depression scene in New Moon, with female lead Bella sitting catatonic in a chair, numb to the passage of time as the seasons go morosely by. This is as if to ask, what sort of life could this interesting girl possibly have without a boy/man (albeit a hot century-old one needing SPF 300 and fang tip protectors) to define her?

(And yes, I do remember being eighteen, but I might’ve been closer to thirteen when everything registered “10” on the Richter scale of drama. I suppose, on top of my rant about pop culture’s schmaltzy selling of True Love, I’m a bit oldschool in my wariness of enabling yet more psycho-emotional developmental retardation in Gen Y and younger. That can’t be good for them…or us…)

Moon Over Who I Am(mi)

When I was a teen, I connected with my future “perfect guy” by spiritually – and pragmatically – thinking about what qualifying qualities he would need: supportive of my vision and successes in life, a fully realized adult himself, and most of all… happy. I didn’t waste too much time on what he would look like, or if he would have to be rich, or what he would do for a living.  (For the record, I did seriously debate whether or not I could ever marry for money… My answer was ‘no,’ which meant I would have to go out and make my own money!)  To this day, I still spiritually conjure up what I want – and who I want – by knowing what does and doesn’t work for me.  I’ve realized that developing a sense of self is very spiritual and all about connecting to your highest purpose.

What do you think?

Have we been so deeply imprinted by cultural messages that we’ve become disconnected from our own thoughts and values enough that the media can dictate how we feel about — well, ourselves and what we look for in relationships? The Twilight series plot points remind me of reasons why a lot of grown women I know seem to be frustrated and perpetually searching for some ideal man who doesn’t exist outside a fantasy serial. These beautiful women are waiting around for the “rescue” (whether amorous, financial or otherwise) before they give themselves permission to start living fully. Am I just under-informed or overwrought about the harmful message in this movie franchise’s True Love messaging?

Please, enlighten me, Twilight freakistas. The example of oh-so-desolate Bella simply triggered my internal dialogue.  What do you think about the media’s harmful portrayal and perpetuation of True Love? Does the Twilight series fall in line with the rest of the negative relationship models out there?

* Since this article ran originally, I’ve been schooled that this sort of sarcasm is a dangerous exploitation of the self-harm that some people suffer from. That was and is not my intention, and I do not belittle the seriousness of such afflictions, but I leave the remark as is here for the expression that supports my article’s original point.

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