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“Surrogates” You, Only Perfect

3 Sep

This is not a movie but an existentialism review. “Surrogates” a Bruce Willis sci-fi B-movie, for me raised some grade-A questions about our flawed human existences: What does it mean to be human; What would you explore from the comfort of never leaving your home; What could you be if you were perfect — and Would the world actually be a better place if we were all perfect? Stretches of this flick feature Willis as a flawless-skinned, freaky blond wig-wearing Surrogate (e.g., robot) detective in the near future where the crime rates are down 99% in a society where the “real” people/Operators live through their “surrogate” robots/units, which represent them and dominate in the Real World.

Genuinely Fake

The best bits include when a hot hunky unit shows himself to wildly misrepresent his shaloompa oompa real life Operator — just like most trawlers at online dating sites. And then there is Willis’ screen wife’s perfect surrogate whose bears no resemblance to her burnt out Operator’s dysfunction and broken down addictions. [Potential spoilers alert!, stop reading here if you intend to see this movie and want to be surprised. Beyond that, I'm trusting that if you are reading this, you are bona fide REAL Operator who gets the meanings I try to put out there about the empowerment of tuning IN in our media-pop culture. Mamacitas, in the vernacular of this film, you are most likely coded to your own neural signature!]

Tuning IN to Feel Your Self Up

I’m para-quoting a pivotal speech by anti-surrogate leader, the Prophet (Ving Rhames): “When you sacrifice your own personal desires to the greater cause, a greater good, you never die…you never disappear. That is what it means to be human. You can try to escape by living through a puppet…but deep down inside you know you’re living a lie. …we know the truth. We sacrifice many modern pleasures and conveniences to feel truly connected, not with machines, but with ourselves. This is the human condition. This is what gives life meaning. My friends, soon will come the day when surrogacy must end. That day, I promise you is close at hand. The day we get a second chance.” Whoa, deep, dude. Later when Willis’ real Operator character gets a beating from his bodyguards, the Prophet says, “It’s different when you actually feel the pain, isn’t it?”

So in our days of climate change and personal and global financial crises, this timely popcorn movie made me think hard about the eternal Why am I here and How do I roll?- existential questions that haunt us humans — uhh, at least if, as Carrie Fisher puts it, you’re culturally lucky enough to have time to have such “high class problems.”

When I’m feeling off my game and need to deal with very human angst , I log off and tune IN to listen to my body’s wisdom. What is it telling me about how I actually feel about how cleanly I’m living my life on all levels, female aging in our culture, or when I eff up small- or big-time with someone? What are the states of my stomach (related to 3rd chakra), neck (5th) or chest (4th) trying to tell me? I breathe deeply and consciously send a healing golden light wherever needed, breathing in the energy of self-acceptance and repeat, “When I know better, I do better,” and breathing out anxiety and self-doubt from the affected places. Ten times is a meditation. I thank my body’s wisdom and guidance.

How do you embrace your imperfections? Own your flawed humanity? Or while you’re developing that skill as habit, how do you represent your best self out in the Real World? Are you a misrepresentin’ Surrogate (including cosmetics, diet, Spanx utilitarianism, plastic surgeries), or do you spend your valuable life denying a dysfunction (until it maybe manifests as a dis-ease)? Does your Operator self-numb with, or aggressively disdain technology (texting, or the much-aligned TV)? Is it possible to ever feel 100% free to be ourselves, aging, sagging, smart-alternately-not-so-smart selves as our true flesh and blood Operating selves? Another way to ask this question is: Do you walk your talk more than half the time?

Image: Disney, Touchstone Pictures

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Wish List: Celeb Look-alike Plastic Surgery

4 Aug

At the risk of sounding completely self-absorbed or vain, I’m going to put this right out there as I see it. I was considered a Pretty Girl growing up, getting regular praise for something completely out of my control and not of my core self — and as a result, feeling strangely uncomfortable about it from a very young age on. Maybe I didn’t totally believe it, or more likely I saw it as a very small window of “opportunity” relative to my lifetime, and so I actively and deliberately chose to work on developing my personality, sense of humor and personal growth in multi areas. I expect(ed) a lot of and for myself (as my mother drug-pushered onto me:) owing to my talents expressed as action of not hard but smart work. But enough about me. This is what I think about us.

Today’s self-indulgent yet self-hating vanity looks a lot like some sort of ‘50s, Stepford Wives, The Rules backlash to my Feminist 2.0 eyes. Let me be clear I am not against any cosmetic surgery if the person is doing this only for themselves and after real deliberation, and research and comparison (i.e., doctors’ Before/After computer renderings). As I believe myself to have stated clearly above, I’m all about enhancement and improvement! But our celeb culture shouts loudly that looks count. Only. So what do your lips, cheekbones, breasts and even your butt say about you? Do they say you are stylish, rich, sexually desirable, or insecure and dissatisfied? With the plastic surgery numbers as high as they are and only growing, it appears as if many Americans believe what our looks say about us is far more important to work on than what our personality — and its engine, our character — does. And more than ever, people are asking their surgeons for Angelina Jolie’s juicy mouth, or George Clooney’s strong chin, and reality show superstar Kim Kardashian’s bountiful booty, without any regard to appropriateness/fit at best, and distortion and the risk of psycho-emotional and physical pain, at worst.

Here’s the 411 for anyone unfamiliar with the recent Kim Kardashian-wannabe fan Twitter incident.

While Kardashian’s speedy response was lauded by (if not surprising to) many, and no one seems to dispute this fan is suffering from a scary case of SWF-syndrome, with a heaping tablespoon of low self-esteem folded into the mix, the CNN reporters‘ vapid so-called “debate” is truly what’s disturbing to me.

I would expect such insipid questions and this sort of trashy arguing on the Insider (with its shit stirring tag line, Which side are you on?) and ET but this faux Cross Fire exchange is only insightful to the very, very young or people with A.D.D. Can’t allegedly real news outlets fulfill their duty to be more responsible to their viewers by offering a more insightful look at the disturbing underlying cultural trends? I know how the business works but must it completely fail itself and us so often? No wonder the once-venerable (the Smart not Pretty Girl from the block) CNN is failing.

Again, they were pseudo-debating this “story” not “subject” — there’s a big difference, and it ain’t pretty so it doesn’t get much air time — its upshot is that our culture doesn’t promote real and sustainable self-esteem born of the work and achievement of inner beauty of average (that’s most of us, folks!) people (especially those of the beleaguered female gender). In fact, it’s deeply economically incentivized (fashion, cosmetics, elective surgery industries, et al) to perpetuate the beauty myth instead. And when you have a culture that values looks over character then is it any wonder more and more dissatisfied people behave as though they can buy happiness? …Sigh!…Then again…beauty does count to us mere humankies. What’s my diligent self-care when I feel overly consumed by someone’s looks over their talent, words, or real merit? It’s spirituality to the rescue for me as I run my deep breathing, clarity exercise imagining a beautiful glowing and white light of Truth running through my 3rd, 4th, 5th, the will power, heart and third eye chakras, and connect that light to their heart. And then I am more able to open my ears to the messenger.

What trend or subject(s) show you that our culture seems to dissuade developing actual self-esteem in girls and women? How have you found the beauty industry to be an ugly enabler of shallowness than to enhance one’s true confidence? Which news sources do you count of for a more in-depth, balanced look at our culture’s trends/our psyches?

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